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Gab
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| 03/02/2010 9:32 PM |
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Hi,
First sorry if i misstell something, i am french and i am not perfect in english.
I am courtshipping a yound lady, very kind, affectuous, and beautiful, full of great qualities that honor her.
As i read the book "for women only" , and as she started to read it herself, we found out that she was built just as a man for the "respect" aspect.
She is often disapointed, and frustrated by a inner feeling of inferiority (as submission subject gets her frustrated, i am far away to make pressure on here for that topic!)
She discovered with the book for women only, that she wanted to be more thant jsute loved. Answering to the question "would you prefer to be unrespected or missloved" , she is saying that she'd prefer to be missloved than unrespected.. but she don't really see the difference between both idéa.
A fact, is that she as a father that don't cheer her a lot. Instead, he diminished her often... maybe thats the reason why she's seeking respect to feel à the height, confident, and capable. She admit the need to be loved too as for men only books tell.
Help me, i dont know what do to really in front of this situation. To help her out of her frustrations and deceptions.
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JoeMS
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| 03/15/2010 7:19 PM |
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| Gab, isn't the goal to better understand her? If you have learned that she craves respect, than be sensitive to her need in that area. Self-help books, counselors and pastors will provide insights and topics that you can discuss so you can get to know each other better. They have been helpful to us, especially during difficult times in our relationship. |
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