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Anna
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| 10/23/2009 1:21 AM |
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| My hubby and I been married for 4 years we have a 3 year old daughter. About a year and a half after my daughter was born my husband and i started growing away from each other. Then about a year ago he started going to online dating sites and then ended up cheating on me half a year ago. I love him and will do any thing for him but when do i say enough is enough. I have been mentally abused off and on thew our marriage. And he has admitted to me me that he knows how to guilt me in to letting him get what he wants. He is deployed and i am back home debating if i will stay or go back to him when he gets back. We boath have read the books and learned so much from them. I want to for give him, I want to trust him agen. We want to make things better we want to fall in love agean. But do not know were to start or how. |
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JoeMS
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| 10/27/2009 2:42 PM |
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Is he christian? A situation as serious as yours will probably require someone who specializes in these cases.
I think some women are too quick to put the blame on themselves, their appearance, age, etc. Obviously no one is perfect so books such as Shaunti's are a helpful way to discover our blind spots.
Any chance he has mild neurochemical issues such as untreated ADHD or depression or maybe psychological issues that might be contributing? |
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Adelynn
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| 10/29/2009 5:33 PM |
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| You need to ask those who love you and care about you and know both of you. Church leaders, Bible Study group friends, family- anyone with a loving relationship with you. They know you best. God doesn't only speak in loud voices anymore- He speaks to us through those we know, through situations in our lives and through things we read in the Bible and in other places. |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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