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Taz
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| 10/10/2008 5:58 AM |
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| I just read the book for men only and now I know what my wife wants but is it to late as we have been seperated for almost 2 years and I love her but she says she does not love me and want a divorce and she will not open up to me she does not trust me or respect me I know I can win her back but I need help any idea ladies would be very much apprecated thank you |
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Gubbles
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| 12/16/2008 6:28 PM |
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Taz...
Are you sure its not just time to let it go?
I know its a touchy subject....and I dont want to sound horrible, but you have to consider the RESAONS you two seperated in the first place, she may just feel that you hurt her so bad and no human wants to go back to something that has hurt them in the past,
BUT in saying that, If you still love her....check out 1 Corth. 13.... if you want to know how to love her, read it and start appyling it....let her have some time to get used to it, you have to remember that all she knows was the you that she broke up with two years ago...
I hope it all goes ok......'trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, and in all ways He will direct your paths.'..
Blessings, and I hope it helps...
my heart goes out to you |
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**Jes :-)
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| 02/04/2009 3:04 PM |
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| i'm not married but i've often listened to FOcus on the Family and they have great advice on that kinda stuff maybe you could call them and ask them for advice. |
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Tiffany
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| 08/06/2009 9:07 AM |
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| I am now a wife who wants out because like Gubbles said, who wants to be with someone that caused so much hurt & broke your heart? I can't understand how he could have been so uncaring of my feelings up until the time I said "I'm done". THEN he decided to change & treat me better. He's apologized for years of selfishness & for taking me for granted. I had told him about my feelings in the past but he didn't care then. Forgiving would probably be the easy part. How do I forget? He's being "perfect" now, but is that because he knows he's losing me & will he go back to his old self if I stay?
Taz, this doesn't answer your ?, but I'm wondering how your situation is going. I feel like the sparkle has gone out of our marriage & he wants to stay together because of co-dependency from being married 21 yrs. The wierd thing is that he's a better person now, but it seems like it came too late. If he has truly been in love with me all these years, why did he not care about my feelings. Seems that when you're in love, you would naturally care about that person. We're recently separated but still living in separate parts of the house. |
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